From the moment Joy and Milton Haines locked eyes, the pair were inseparable.
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They were engaged and married within a few short weeks of meeting in 1953 and remained in love and close with one another during their 67 years of marriage, which they had celebrated in October.
In a devastating but fitting end to their love story, the popular Little Beach couple died within three weeks of each other in November.
Mr Haines, who celebrated his 90th birthday on July 17, died suddenly on November 2 from a heart attack. Mrs Haines, aged 87, died peacefully at home on November 23.
Vicki Haines, one of the Haines' five children, described her father as a "true gentleman" who didn't have a "bad word about anyone".
"He was 90 years old but was so very young at heart. He drank a little, sang a little, danced a little but laughed a lot," she said.
A funeral for Mr Haines was held for family and close friends at Port Stephens Uniting Church on November 9.
Ms Haines described her mum as the "most beautiful person I know" and an "environmental warrior". Mrs Haines visited Little Beach daily to pick up rubbish.
"Council knew if something was wrong," Ms Haines said of her mother's strong will. "Volunteering for the council, mum found a purpose. Mum said she would never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world."
Mrs Haines was also instrumental in the operation of the Nelson Bay Community Hall for many years. A funeral for Mrs Haines was held at Port Stephens Uniting Church on December 2. It was well attended by family, friends and members of the community that she had worked alongside.
Mr and Mrs Haines met on August 29, were engaged September 12 and married October 17 - all in 1953.
"Dad met the love of life at such a early age and knew it was a real, forever love that lasted 67 wonderful years. How lucky were the both of you. Mum would say, if you find someone you love like she did with dad, hold on to it," Ms Haines said.
Following a holiday to Nelson Bay, the Haines' bought a block of land at Little Beach where they built a home and began living from 1986.
The Haines' are survived by three children, 10 grandchildren and 16 great-grandchildren.
